Facing the
Enemies Within by Jim Rohn
We
are not born with courage, but neither are we born with fear. Maybe some of our
fears are brought on by your own experiences, by what someone has told you, by
what you've read in the papers. Some fears are valid, like walking alone in a
bad part of town at two o'clock in the morning. But once you learn to avoid that
situation, you won't need to live in fear of it.
Fears,
even the most basic ones, can totally destroy our ambitions. Fear can destroy
fortunes. Fear can destroy relationships. Fear, if left unchecked, can destroy
our lives. Fear is one of the many enemies lurking inside us.
Let
me tell you about five of the other enemies we face from within. The first enemy
that you've got to destroy before it destroys you is indifference. What a tragic
disease this is. "Ho-hum, let it
slide. I'll just drift along." Here's one problem with drifting: you can't
drift your way to the top of the mountain.
The
second enemy we face is indecision. Indecision is the thief of opportunity and
enterprise. It will steal your chances for a better future. Take a sword to this
enemy.
The
third enemy inside is doubt. Sure, there's room for healthy skepticism. You
can't believe everything. But you also can't let doubt take over. Many people
doubt the past, doubt the future, doubt each other, doubt the government, doubt
the possibilities and doubt the opportunities. Worse of all, they doubt
themselves. I'm telling you, doubt will
destroy your life and your chances of success. It will empty both your bank
account and your heart. Doubt is an enemy
Go after it. Get rid of it.
The
fourth enemy within is worry. We've all got to worry some.
Just don't let it conquer you. Instead, let it alarm you. Worry can be
useful. If you step off the curb in New York City and a taxi is coming, you've
got to worry. But you can't let worry loose like a mad dog that drives you into
a small corner. Here's what you've got to do with your worries: drive them into
a small corner. Whatever is out to get you, you've got to get it.
Whatever is pushing on you, you've got to push back.
The
fifth interior enemy is over-caution. It is the timid approach to life. Timidity
is not a virtue; it's an illness. If you let it go, it'll conquer you. Timid
people don't get promoted. They don't advance and grow and become powerful in
the marketplace. You've got to avoid over-caution.
Do
battle with the enemy. Do battle with your fears. Build your courage to fight
what's holding you back, what's keeping you from your goals and dreams. Be
courageous in your life and in your pursuit of the things you want and the
person you want to become.